Playing odd man out? Not today! – reminiscences of an accessible holiday…..

 

As the time of writing this morning, I’m intending on spending the day catching up with my recorded 76863C1B-665E-47B5-9A63-CCD3216C9DA9programmes on the TV. Why am I sat here in front of the tellybox? Well, to tell the truth it’s to pass the time whilst my darling P and his friends are having their regular Monday cards school and as usual, all I can hear is laughing, shouting and various other playful noises! It’s great fun to be the outsider, listening to their shouts of “cheat!”, “noooo!” and the constant wind-up question “what’s trumps?” only interrupted by the movement of chairs, the boiling of the kettle and the clinking of cups.

 

Sitting here, eyes glazing over and my mind wanders back to another time when I heard the sounds of people just AF74E29D-CD5A-4890-A42D-65E1C98BCCE6simply enjoying their time together, back to our recent holiday where the sunshine was certainly guaranteed and families were there to enjoy themselves. With the splashing in the pool and laughter everywhere, it could have been your typical overseas holiday scene but for two important details – everyone there was either with someone with a disability or had a disability themselves. It really is a most remarkable place and somewhere that teach the rest of the world something about acceptance and accessibility. 

 

I remember writing these sentences whilst I was there…….

 

With the sun and the swimming pool in front to me, I am absolutely overwhelmed by the love and kindness I see in front of me. Anywhere else the mix of strangers with so many different needs would be staggering but here, that’s not the case, here we’re just us having a great holiday. 

 

There is there is a family of 3 with two members in 415F352A-E62C-4384-BDB9-D9428217A508wheelchairs, there is the couple where one is in a wheelchair and the other isn’t, there is a small boy swimming in the pool trying his hand at snorkelling and a 13 strong family surrounding the completely disabled child in the pool. A truly beautiful sight, they surrounded him with love and laughter, each taking a handful of the sling beneath him to make sure he didn’t drop out at all.”

 

 

 

And then there is the lady who can say nothing but ‘da’ and the woman with the two carers who are swimming and sunbathing alongside her.

 

Some of us are in the shade, Some of us (like me!) are in the bright bright sun, there are probably 5 or 6 different 1B20EC93-59F6-4D1A-84FC-2C6D0F4B1DA6languages being spoken at the same time but you couldn’t find a friendlier bunch anywhere. Where else could you find a table of 10 people out for a meal in a local tavern, 6 of whom are disabled, either wheelchair users, use a scooter, have had a stroke or battle with MS.

 

We all have our challenges but all of us smiling laughing and having a ball!

Here we are not ‘the girl in the wheelchair’, ‘the boy in the frame’, ‘the woman who can’t talk’ or ‘the boy who can’t move’, we’re just ourselves, trying to have a great holiday, just like everyone else.

 

If there is ever a place which proves that love exists and that by simply adapting the world around us, disabled people can defeat any and all obstacles then that place is here.” 

A smile returns to my face thinking of our holiday and I can’t wait to get back there, back to the sunshine, back to the wonderful welcome and back to the friends we’ve made there. It really is a magical place. Now if it can be done in a small corner of Cyprus, why can’t we do it here……..???

 

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10 comments

    • Thanks! They genuinely are and it’s a lovely place to unwind without the stresses of finding transport and accommodation. Thanks again for your comment 🙏

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    • Thanks! It’s good to know there are places like that out there, we got caught two years ago with a big ‘speciality’ company where the holiday was as far away from accessible as is possible so you have to be careful. Thanks again for your comment 🙏

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  1. Reading your blog tonite warmed my heart. We were so privileged to meet The Top Lady Talks in person and your wonderful “P” amongst all the other amazing guests. We certainly had many fabulous hot days next to the pool, nothing a freshly squeezed orange juice and a swim could not sort out. We will treasure each day we were able to spend with all the guests at breakfast, dinner time and especially on Souvlakia nite . We hope to be back sometime soon with all the old regulars ..Take good care and love your “P”

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    • Thanks so much for your lovely comments! It was an absolute pleasure and privilege to meet such a wonderful lady such as yourself, I hope I can call you a friend from now on and I really and truly hope that we meet you again. I wish all the very best luck for your son and his dreams and thanks again for bringing your smiles, happiness and laughter to our little piece of heaven! Pete and I send you all our love 💕

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